Homophobia is ridiculous because our primary interaction with sexual pleasure is our own body. Any time a cis male masturbates he is in fact pleasuring a penis, with the goal of enjoying male sexual gratification. He is much more familiar with the patterns of male pleasure than he is with those of another sex.
If we can fully enjoy masturbation and not encounter any problems touching our own anatomy in a sensual way, then shouldn't it be easy to imagine transferring that pleasure onto another person of the same sex? Conversely, if we are repulsed by the idea of loving anyone with the same kind of genitals, are we not also revolted by our own bodies to some degree and therefore blocked from fully enjoying our sexuality?
